alright here is my situation.
i met this girl back in april at a friends going away party, she in turn thought i was cool, and we exchanged numbers. now she has a kid who is now 15 momths old, so to be nice i texted her "happy mothers day" on mothers day and she invited me to porch drinking with some mutual friends, and from theer i was invited to her daughters birthdayparty in may. now not knowing how she felt. at that party i couldn't take my eyes off her.. she kinda had me there..lol but we talked a little and i mentioned about racing. she thought it was cool that race. i told her if she ever wanted to, she should come check me out in the local races. not taking it seriously, because no one comes to my races at all. the next week arrived, and i was up on the startinghill waiting for my moto when suddenly she showed up. i was never so happy to see her in my life at that point.
a few weeks later it was a rainy day, she was complaining about her family and child being fussy, and wante dto get out of the house, she wanted to just take a drive, so she texted me asking if i wanted togo along. again. i said alright. we drove for a few hours around pittsburgh just talking and getting to know each other. before dropping me off, we sat in her car infront of my house, we must have sat there for over an hour justtalking. i got a vibe that she wanted to kiss me..but i wasn't sure. we made another driving date, this time i would drive.
so that drivingdate comes, and we drive around up by the local track i ride at. we just todl each other aboutour lives, all our ups and downs. it was rainy again. we ended up back on her frontporch at teh end of the night and this tiem we finally kissed.
now i am gonan stop boring you guys..lol she showed up at all my races after that day, even my local nationals. she sat through 6 hours of bmx racing.. for me!
enough bragging to my problem. i liek her. i told her that i more than like her. but we are not "official". i asked about that and she said she wants to wait till she has a job again. (she was laid off form the post office in october of 2008) i told her i was cool with that, but i "more than like her"
my issue is even though we aren't official, should i tell her that i love her, or should i just wait till she gets work and makes us "official"?
i cannot stress that for the first time in a long time. i really do love her..
this weekend she is goin on a trip with herfriend to see her friends husband in D.C.( he is in the military).
i just need some help here. its been over 2 years since i was in a meaningful relationship and i don't wanna screw this up with her.
i met this girl back in april at a friends going away party, she in turn thought i was cool, and we exchanged numbers. now she has a kid who is now 15 momths old, so to be nice i texted her "happy mothers day" on mothers day and she invited me to porch drinking with some mutual friends, and from theer i was invited to her daughters birthdayparty in may. now not knowing how she felt. at that party i couldn't take my eyes off her.. she kinda had me there..lol but we talked a little and i mentioned about racing. she thought it was cool that race. i told her if she ever wanted to, she should come check me out in the local races. not taking it seriously, because no one comes to my races at all. the next week arrived, and i was up on the startinghill waiting for my moto when suddenly she showed up. i was never so happy to see her in my life at that point.
a few weeks later it was a rainy day, she was complaining about her family and child being fussy, and wante dto get out of the house, she wanted to just take a drive, so she texted me asking if i wanted togo along. again. i said alright. we drove for a few hours around pittsburgh just talking and getting to know each other. before dropping me off, we sat in her car infront of my house, we must have sat there for over an hour justtalking. i got a vibe that she wanted to kiss me..but i wasn't sure. we made another driving date, this time i would drive.
so that drivingdate comes, and we drive around up by the local track i ride at. we just todl each other aboutour lives, all our ups and downs. it was rainy again. we ended up back on her frontporch at teh end of the night and this tiem we finally kissed.
now i am gonan stop boring you guys..lol she showed up at all my races after that day, even my local nationals. she sat through 6 hours of bmx racing.. for me!
enough bragging to my problem. i liek her. i told her that i more than like her. but we are not "official". i asked about that and she said she wants to wait till she has a job again. (she was laid off form the post office in october of 2008) i told her i was cool with that, but i "more than like her"
my issue is even though we aren't official, should i tell her that i love her, or should i just wait till she gets work and makes us "official"?
i cannot stress that for the first time in a long time. i really do love her..
this weekend she is goin on a trip with herfriend to see her friends husband in D.C.( he is in the military).
i just need some help here. its been over 2 years since i was in a meaningful relationship and i don't wanna screw this up with her.
