I myself don't really care when you have sex, as long you're not stupid about it. Use condoms, birth control, or a diaphram unless you want a child, or an STD.
Sex Before Marriage?
- Thread starter Daemon Sadi
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i dont mind it my self but yes totally agree in protecting ureself! unless you really want a kid and know u can support him/her.
Meh. Being able to support a child before having one is common sense, though. Or, I think it is, anyway.
not just that people get stds or hiv's and **** always protect no matter how clean the gurl says she is.....
Hitman, don't care one bit. 
My point is many people, mainly Christians, say it's wrong. My brothers gf family would disown her if she did.
My point is many people, mainly Christians, say it's wrong. My brothers gf family would disown her if she did.
I don't have a problem with sex before the marriage, I mean its something normal and not something bad or holy in my opinion.
Just protcetion is important of course,and you should not do it with everyone if you get what I mean.
Just protcetion is important of course,and you should not do it with everyone if you get what I mean.
I have no problem with this as i've commited the "sin" already. I can respect other peoples beleifs on this one but some of them take it a bit to far by them demanding some sort of respect because their better than or something....i don't know.
I really can't see any problem with this at all.
I really can't see any problem with this at all.
Well some people have beliefs and I respect them but it seems our generation is different and the next will be different. The way I see it and seems like most people see it as sex is a normal thing theres nothing wrong with it. I think its only wrong if your having sex with "others" AFTER your married. But before you are as long as your taking precautions I think its pretty normal thing.
Yeah thats something else, I beleive if you don't have sex before marriage you could get pretty bored with the one partner you've had your whole life. Leading you to cheat. Its sad enough but its most likely true.
well thats where love comes into if you really love the person I think you won't cheat or you'll always be scared to cheat but it really depends on factors. If you have a kid I doubt you'd cheat knowing your gonna lose your kid and wife and home and car etc....
On the other hand cheating happens when the sexual life or time is dying thats why its good to have a good sex life cause thats one of the BIG reasons why relationships don't work out. Everything should be balanced if it isn't kiss it all good bye lol
Also think of it this way if your a guy and your gonna get married are you fine with marrying a gurl who's already had sex numerous times? Also vice versa for gurls. Thats a major facter to why some people wait for marriage they think well if I have sex now especially for women they think well ill be "used" and no guys gonna want me. I've seen many high school chic friends talk about that......
On the other hand cheating happens when the sexual life or time is dying thats why its good to have a good sex life cause thats one of the BIG reasons why relationships don't work out. Everything should be balanced if it isn't kiss it all good bye lol
Also think of it this way if your a guy and your gonna get married are you fine with marrying a gurl who's already had sex numerous times? Also vice versa for gurls. Thats a major facter to why some people wait for marriage they think well if I have sex now especially for women they think well ill be "used" and no guys gonna want me. I've seen many high school chic friends talk about that......
Even so man you never know if they have had sexual encounters. I mean I know that what they've done is basically lie but don't forget it does happen. Some guys/girls are really up tight about who they've had sexual encounters with before and would rather not know but basically will undoubtedly ask at one point. If the partner knows this and truly loves them but doesn't want to put em down they'll tell them that they haven't. Its a shame to think that this is true but i've known it to happen.
I agree with you thats one thing thats all about trust your trusting them on there word. So yeah in the end its really a trust issue you can't know 100% so I guess you just gotta live with it. The only thing that can beat the person is the guilt.
If there are any that is. Knowing there is no such thing as safe-sex, you have to prepared if consequences do happen. But sex is sex. It's 100% humanly nature, which is natural.
What consequences are you exactly referring to? I know you can catch diseases and stuff but thats not the topic, I don't really see any guilt for doing it before marriage at all.H-F Blade said:
Well personally i think there is nothing wrong with it.
Like if your using a condom and the girl is on birthcontrol there is practically no chance of her getting pregnent so there is much consequence, but some people believe in it some dont i personally dont believe in it i would find that waiting like5-7 years for that is worth it but it might get boring after a while doing just the first 3 bases like when your together for 5 years theres a low chance that your not goiing to end up together so might as well go for it.
Like if your using a condom and the girl is on birthcontrol there is practically no chance of her getting pregnent so there is much consequence, but some people believe in it some dont i personally dont believe in it i would find that waiting like5-7 years for that is worth it but it might get boring after a while doing just the first 3 bases like when your together for 5 years theres a low chance that your not goiing to end up together so might as well go for it.
Nemo Lover
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Technically, "be careful" is 2 words =P
But personally, I think if you really love someone and want to share something special with them before you get married then it's okay, you just have to be prepared to accept any consequences that come about.
But personally, I think if you really love someone and want to share something special with them before you get married then it's okay, you just have to be prepared to accept any consequences that come about.